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“Ruaje k\u00ebt\u00eb!”, iu drejtua Resulull-llahu (a.s.), Hz. Muadhit (r.a.), duke i b\u00ebr\u00eb shenj\u00eb nga gjuha.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I habitur, sahabiu i ri n\u00eb mosh\u00eb ia ktheu: “Pse, a do t\u00eb llogaritemi p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb flasim?”. Resulull-llahu (a.s.) i ktheu nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje, q\u00eb e befasoi edhe pyet\u00ebsin, fundi i s\u00eb cil\u00ebs ishte: “Pse, a nuk do hidhen njer\u00ebzit me fytyr\u00eb n\u00eb zjarr, ve\u00e7se p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb rezultatit t\u00eb gjuh\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre?!”\u2026 Hadith i friksh\u00ebm, por nj\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb e madhe, rezultatet e s\u00eb cil\u00ebs shihen qart\u00eb n\u00eb realitetet e jet\u00ebs mbi tok\u00eb!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sa e sa familje, shoq\u00ebri e miq\u00ebsi jan\u00eb prishur p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb nj\u00eb fjale, p\u00ebr nj\u00eb thashethem, p\u00ebr nj\u00eb p\u00ebrfolje t\u00eb paqen\u00eb, p\u00ebr nj\u00eb shpifje a trillim? Sa njer\u00ebz e mbushin koh\u00ebn e tyre me thashetheme e fjal\u00eb t\u00eb shumta e pa dobi, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb Resulull-llahu (a.s.) thot\u00eb: “Nd\u00ebr m\u00eb t\u00eb urryerit tuaj p\u00ebr mua dhe m\u00eb larg meje nd\u00ebr ju n\u00eb dit\u00ebn e gjykimit jan\u00eb llafazan\u00ebt, goj\u00ebhapurit (q\u00eb flasin shum\u00eb), fjal\u00ebm\u00ebdhenjt\u00eb (q\u00eb shfaqin mendjemadh\u00ebsi gjat\u00eb t\u00eb folurit)!”. I D\u00ebrguari i All-llahut (a.s.) na m\u00ebsoi se: “Me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb robi e flet nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb prej atyre fitojn\u00eb p\u00eblqimin e All-llahut, pa i dh\u00ebn\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi, me t\u00eb e lart\u00ebson All-llahu n\u00eb shkall\u00eb t\u00eb larta! Dhe, me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb robi e flet nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, prej atyre q\u00eb fitojn\u00eb zem\u00ebrimin e All-llahut, pa i dh\u00ebn\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi, me t\u00eb rr\u00ebshqet n\u00eb xhehnem!”, si\u00e7 e transmeton Imam Bukhariu.
\nKjo na frym\u00ebzon drejt llogaritjes s\u00eb fjal\u00ebve q\u00eb themi \u00e7do dit\u00eb, duke u p\u00ebrpjekur secili prej nesh t\u00eb largohet nga sharjet, fyerjet, fjal\u00ebt e ul\u00ebta, thashethemet e tavolinave, p\u00ebrgojimin e t\u00eb ngjashme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dikur thonin: “T\u00eb pendohem p\u00ebr nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb t\u00eb path\u00ebn\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb se t\u00eb pendohem p\u00ebr nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb!”, sepse fjala \u00ebsht\u00eb si plumbi, po doli nuk kthehet m\u00eb!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Resulull-llahu (a.s.) thoshte: “Kush heshti, fitoi!”, duke na ftuar drejt p\u00ebrdorimit t\u00eb mendjes p\u00ebrpara fjal\u00ebs, ose t\u00eb zgjedhim heshtjen, p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb jet\u00eb shum\u00eb von\u00eb!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u00eb ruhemi nga vendet, ku gjuha nuk ka kufi! T\u00eb mos ulemi, aty ku konsumohet p\u00ebrgojimi e fjal\u00ebt e shumta, prej t\u00eb cilave s’ka asnj\u00eb dobi! T\u00eb mos b\u00ebhemi pal\u00eb e shoq\u00ebrive q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb edukat\u00eb e kultur\u00eb t\u00eb foluri, fjala e t\u00eb cil\u00ebve nuk ka asnj\u00eb pesh\u00eb nga konsumimi i tep\u00ebrt! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Shtimi i dhikrit, angazhimi i vazhduesh\u00ebm me lexime t\u00eb dobishme nga Kur’ani, jeta e pejgamber\u00ebve, salavatet e panum\u00ebrta, etj., do t\u00eb ishin nj\u00eb zgjidhje e dobishme n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e rregullimit t\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies q\u00eb kemi me fjal\u00ebn!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
(Nga dersi i akshamit, m\u00eb 7 n\u00ebntor 2019, n\u00eb xhamin\u00eb e Tophan\u00ebs)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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