{"id":3104,"date":"2021-07-18T09:14:23","date_gmt":"2021-07-18T09:14:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/muhamedsytari.net\/?p=3104"},"modified":"2021-07-18T09:14:50","modified_gmt":"2021-07-18T09:14:50","slug":"meditime-37","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/muhamedsytari.net\/?p=3104","title":{"rendered":"Meditime (37)"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Im bir, ky, \u00ebsht\u00eb zot\u00ebri..!”<\/strong><\/p>\n

I telefonova mbr\u00ebm\u00eb nj\u00eb miku, p\u00ebr t’u takuar. Kishim plot p\u00ebr t\u00eb diskutuar, tashm\u00eb q\u00eb edhe Kurban Bajrami po afron dhe, mendimet dhe idet\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuese v\u00ebrshojn\u00eb, ai burim i pashterrsh\u00ebm i m\u00ebshir\u00ebs s\u00eb Krijuesit ton\u00eb ndaj nesh.<\/p>\n

– “Kam dalur me vajz\u00ebn e vog\u00ebl…” -, ma ktheu, me nj\u00eb ton justifikues, por me nj\u00eb z\u00eb t\u00eb mbushur me mir\u00ebsi e bekime p\u00ebr vajz\u00ebn, q\u00eb me siguri e mbante p\u00ebr dore n\u00eb ato momente.<\/p>\n

M\u00eb shijoi shum\u00eb ky komunikim dhe, nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht m\u00eb futi n\u00eb mendime, a m\u00eb mir\u00eb thuaj, u kthye n\u00eb nj\u00eb shk\u00ebndij\u00eb frym\u00ebzuese p\u00ebr t\u00eb rreshtuar k\u00ebto fjal\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Imagjinoni p\u00ebr pak m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si, shum\u00eb prej prind\u00ebrve sillen me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre. Po sjell n\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen tuaj disa shprehje, q\u00eb besoj nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb huaja p\u00ebr asnjeri:<\/p>\n

– “Shko na blej buk\u00ebn!”.<\/p>\n

– “Ma sill nj\u00eb got\u00eb uj\u00eb!”.<\/p>\n

– “\u00c7ohu dhe na ndez televizorin!”.<\/p>\n

– “Hajde e m\u00eb shkel pak k\u00ebmb\u00ebt!”.<\/p>\n

– “Shko e tret plehrat!”.<\/p>\n

– “Ma sill pak telekomand\u00ebn!”.<\/p>\n

– “Ulu te komshiu se kam harruar nj\u00eb pla\u00e7k\u00eb”.<\/p>\n

– “Ngjitu n\u00eb pem\u00eb e na k\u00ebput ca fruta!”, e t\u00eb ngjashme.<\/p>\n

Jan\u00eb shprehje, q\u00eb shum\u00eb prind\u00ebr ia drejtojn\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb sistematike f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n

Nuk dua t\u00eb them se nuk mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb k\u00ebto e t\u00eb ngjashme me k\u00ebto “urdhra”, porse dua t\u00eb t\u00ebrheq v\u00ebmendjen se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt nuk jan\u00eb thjesht\u00eb sh\u00ebrb\u00ebtor\u00eb t\u00eb n\u00ebnshtruar, por nj\u00eb amanet i shenjt\u00eb, a m\u00eb mir\u00eb thuaj nj\u00eb dhurat\u00eb e shenjt\u00eb e vazhdim\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb nderimit t\u00eb njeriut me cil\u00ebsimin si: m\u00ebk\u00ebmb\u00ebs i Zotit n\u00eb tok\u00eb!<\/p>\n

Ndaluni pak dhe hidhni nj\u00eb sy nga disa sjellje t\u00eb Resulullahut (paqja qoft\u00eb mbi t\u00eb) me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/p>\n

Hz. Enes ibn Malik thot\u00eb: I sh\u00ebrbeva t\u00eb d\u00ebrguarit, dhjet\u00eb vjet dhe, sa her\u00eb m\u00eb k\u00ebrkonte di\u00e7ka dhe un\u00eb nuk e kryeja, ose e humbisja, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb ndonj\u00eb familjar i tij m\u00eb qortonte, ai thoshte: “L\u00ebreni, se po t\u00eb qe shkruar p\u00ebr t’u realizuar, do t\u00eb kryhej!”, si\u00e7 transmetohet n\u00eb librat e sakt\u00eb t\u00eb hadithit.<\/p>\n

Ai zotni, u ul nj\u00eb dit\u00eb nga minberi, prej ku po mbante hytbe, sepse nipi i tij i vog\u00ebl hyri n\u00eb xhami. E mori n\u00eb krah\u00eb, u rikthye n\u00eb minber dhe nd\u00ebr t\u00eb tjera tha: “Im bir, ky, \u00ebsht\u00eb zot\u00ebri e, ndoshta Allahu do t\u00eb pajtoj\u00eb n\u00eb duart e tij dy grupe t\u00eb m\u00ebdha prej musliman\u00ebve!”, si\u00e7 e transmeton Imam Bukhariu.<\/p>\n

(Sa e madhe kjo fjal\u00eb: “zot\u00ebri”, p\u00ebr nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, q\u00eb kushedi se sa e \u00e7far\u00eb ka dhuruar n\u00eb vet\u00ebdijen e tij ajo d\u00ebshmi e urt\u00eb e nj\u00eb gjyshi t\u00eb d\u00ebrguar nga Zoti i gjith\u00ebsis\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb udh\u00ebzuar mbar\u00eb njer\u00ebzin\u00eb!)<\/p>\n

Nj\u00eb her\u00eb e zgjati sexhden e tij, se nj\u00eb nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebt i kishte hipur mbi shpin\u00eb dhe nuk desht t’ia prishte loj\u00ebn!<\/p>\n

E ngush\u00eblloi djalin e vog\u00ebl Ebu Umejr, dit\u00ebn kur trumcaku i tij i vog\u00ebl mbylli syt\u00eb. I tha, duke ia marr\u00eb hatrin me t\u00eb mir\u00eb: “O Ebu Umejr, \u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebri Nugejri?” – (Nugejr, \u00ebsht\u00eb zvog\u00eblim i nj\u00eb lloj zogu q\u00eb quhet: nagar).<\/p>\n

Ajo q\u00eb dua t\u00eb them, p\u00ebrtej faktit se Resulullahu (a.s) ishte i m\u00ebshirsh\u00ebm, \u00ebsht\u00eb kujdesi p\u00ebr t\u00eb zhvilluar aft\u00ebsit\u00eb e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, p\u00ebr t’i p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelur e dh\u00ebn\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi komunikimit me ta, p\u00ebr t’i vler\u00ebsuar e p\u00ebr t’i p\u00ebrkushtuar koh\u00eb nga koha dhe v\u00ebmendja e jon\u00eb!<\/p>\n

Ndryshe, edukimi nuk ndodh thjesht\u00eb duke i b\u00ebrtitur: “\u00c7ohu me fal\u00eb namazin!”, as duke i marr\u00eb me vete n\u00eb xhami e duke i l\u00ebshuar pap\u00ebrgjegjshm\u00ebrisht, edhe n\u00ebse e thyejn\u00eb xhamin\u00eb dhe e ndezin at\u00eb me zhurm\u00eb e poter\u00eb, as duke i zgjuar n\u00eb syfyr e imponuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb q\u00ebndruar pa ngr\u00ebn\u00eb e pa pir\u00eb me preteksin e edukimit me agj\u00ebrimin, si nj\u00eb pul\u00eb e lidhur n\u00eb kotec, as..!?<\/p>\n

Edukimi \u00ebsht\u00eb amanet dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt duhen trajtuar me njerzillek, m\u00ebshir\u00eb, durim e largpam\u00ebsi, si t\u00eb denj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb nes\u00ebr m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb se ne!<\/p>\n

Imam Muhamed Bardhyl Sytari<\/span><\/a><\/strong>
\nShkod\u00ebr, 18 korrik 2021<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

“Im bir, ky, \u00ebsht\u00eb zot\u00ebri..!” I telefonova mbr\u00ebm\u00eb nj\u00eb miku, p\u00ebr t’u takuar. Kishim plot p\u00ebr t\u00eb diskutuar, tashm\u00eb q\u00eb edhe Kurban Bajrami po afron dhe, mendimet dhe idet\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuese v\u00ebrshojn\u00eb, ai burim i pashterrsh\u00ebm […]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3105,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3104","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-meditime"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/muhamedsytari.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3104","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/muhamedsytari.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/muhamedsytari.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/muhamedsytari.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/muhamedsytari.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3104"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/muhamedsytari.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3104\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3107,"href":"http:\/\/muhamedsytari.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3104\/revisions\/3107"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/muhamedsytari.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3105"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/muhamedsytari.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3104"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/muhamedsytari.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3104"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/muhamedsytari.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3104"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}